| Make your very first letter to your lady shine. This is | | | | 1 My best friend describes me as... |
| your chance to make a new friend who could | | | | 2 I'm happiest when I'm... |
| become an important part of your life. Remember that | | | | 3 Here's what you'd find if you looked around my |
| the very first impression about you will affect on your | | | | place... |
| future communication and if this impression is capable | | | | 4 A great day in my life would include... |
| of improvement this is not a good sign. | | | | 5 The last great book I read was... |
| Follow our instructions and warning tips, based on | | | | 6 The last great movie I saw in a cinema was... |
| many years of online dating experience and be sure | | | | 7 My favorite season is... |
| that success will find you very soon. | | | | 8 The color I wear most is... |
| Instructions | | | | 9 If you asked me what I'm wearing, I'd say... |
| - STEP 1: Be friendly and polite. It's so important to | | | | 10 My favorite on-screen love scene is... |
| show your respect to your lady by using friendly and | | | | 11 The music that moves me most is... |
| polite words in your letter. Avoid nicknames and | | | | 12 Today in my car I was listening to... |
| phrases like: "Hey baby" or "My hot girl" in your very | | | | 13 Last Saturday night I... |
| first introductory letter, it's better to make a pleasant | | | | 14 The last vacation I went on was... |
| compliment for her instead. Don't worry if you really like | | | | 15 The most adventurous thing I've ever done was... |
| using these words you can do it a bit later. Just wait till | | | | 16 I'm happiest when I'm with someone who... |
| lady opened up for you. | | | | - STEP 5: Include information about your age, |
| - STEP 2: Keep your tone upbeat. Your letter should | | | | education and career. In accordance with statistics |
| reflect your great mood and optimism. Never share | | | | these three things are the most important to learn |
| your problems, difficulties and complaints in your first | | | | about for 80 % of ladies. |
| letter this will scare her away. Show her how happy | | | | - STEP 6: Mention your favorite hobbies, pets, children |
| and cheerful you are. Understand that negativity is a | | | | or anything else that might unearth a shared interest |
| major turnoff in your introduction letter. In the contrary, | | | | with in your new friend. |
| being positive is like a magnet. Here's how one person | | | | - STEP 7: Avoid talking about controversial topics. Not |
| actually began his letter: "To be quite honest, I have | | | | in a first letter. Discussions and debates can be really |
| been putting this off as long as possible. I have friends | | | | interesting thing to share in letters, but only when you |
| who use dating web sites and have had some terrible | | | | feel that lady became closer to you and opened up. |
| dates." This begs to ask, "What are you doing here?" | | | | - STEP 8: Take care not to overwhelm the reader |
| Now contrast that to this introductory letter: "I've heard | | | | with too much information. Revealing a little bit at a |
| online dating is a great way to meet awesome people | | | | time will pique the reader's interest. Remember that |
| and that's why I want to meet you." Which one of | | | | there must be a little secret not only in a lady but in a |
| these letter intros is more attractive? The one who | | | | man as well. You'll reach great results if you make |
| wants to date "losers" or the one that wants to date | | | | your lady wait for the next chapter of our story |
| "winners"? Psychologically everyone wants to be a | | | | impatiently. |
| winner. Therefore in your first letter, avoid anything | | | | - STEP 9: Ask her questions so she can respond. If |
| negative. Be positive. | | | | you speak only about yourself in your letter this won't |
| - STEP 3: Share information about yourself that you | | | | help you at all. Remember that it's so important to |
| think others will find interesting. Check her profile, find | | | | have a dialog instead of monologue. |
| out about her hobbies and interests. Remember that | | | | - STEP 10: Let your personality show by your choice |
| it's so great if she finds out that you two have so | | | | of words and the descriptions you use. |
| much in common. | | | | Tips & Warnings |
| - STEP 4: Tell the person who you are and what you | | | | - Remember not to share too much too soon. Wait |
| are about. Avoid speaking about your disadvantages in | | | | until someone knows you before you air your family |
| the very first letter. In the contrary tell her how great | | | | problems and secrets. |
| and wonderful you are, but it's important to know | | | | - Use careful judgment when deciding how much |
| where to stop, otherwise your story will turn into | | | | information to share with a stranger. Always be |
| boasting and this won't have any positive results. Here | | | | cautious when it comes to revealing personal |
| are some phrases that will help you to describe you in | | | | information. |
| a best way: | | | | |